Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook and author of the book, Option B, speaks of the brutality of sudden loss, something with which she is very well-acquainted. Requiem for the status quo speaks of the equally as brutal protracted loss of someone suffering from Alzheimer’s or other dementia. I’m not interested in comparing the two because those of us who have suffered a life-changing loss have no reason to compete with each other.
Caregivers for a loved one with dementia witness the gradual loss of someone they love over an extended period of time.
Once my father was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, it took four years for him to leave me. I was devastated the moment he took his last breath, but my heart was continuously ripped apart during the years leading up to that final breath.
48 months, 208 weeks, 1460 days, 35,040 hours, and 2,102,400 minutes of ongoing departures from my and his life.